With the tolling of the wedding bell your life may become filled with the colors of happiness and eternal romanticism. A wonderful marriage vow or the wedding toast acts as the essence to the beauty of the day, making the day more perfect. But with an unattractive marriage vow all your dreams may crash down to nothingness, thereby destroying the perfect fervor of the ceremony and the celebration of the love.
Hence, it is one of the most significant issues that has to be taken utmost care while preparing. Proper selection of words and juxtaposition of the perfect words to form the perfect vows are the secret of the success story of the delivering a special dimension to the mode of your celebration of love. Marriage vows are of many types, viz. secular, religious, traditional and non-traditional vows. The wordings shall naturally be different for different categories of unity candle vows. If the wedding is on the basis of the religious settings it will be wise to come up with the marriage vows with the wordings that will match perfectly with the sequence. The biblical vows are the best selection in such cases. The Song Of Solomon 8:6-7, “Love is Strong as Death” will be the best selection as a free wedding vow and can deliver both the fragrance of love and religious pureness in the speech.
Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death; jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame. Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be condemned.
If you do not want to take things from the Bible directly, you can frame up your own vows, expressing the very personal feelings and thoughts for your partner to be. A sample of such a vow has been given here under:
In the presence the Omnipotent and All Powerful Almighty I take thee to be my lawfully wedded wife/husband And I promise to hold your hand all through my life amidst all worse and better And poor and richer’
If you have planned to celebrate your wedding in a more modern way, it will be wise to go for a non-traditional marriage vow that displays the aesthetic promises of love and togetherness.
Leave me not and forget me not Compel me not to leave you. My greatest happiness being to spend the life with you. Forgetting what is best forgotten, I promise you to love you forever And Lend you my shoulder for you to repose, Give you peace when there is exhaustion Amidst all denials and odds that the life will bring for us.